In support of families
This week, 5 different families have called or visited. Even when their loved ones aren’t in crisis, they face challenges that require time, energy, and resources. Today, I listened to a daughter as she expressed her frustration, concern, and helplessness as she tries to help her mother even when she doesn’t want her help. Her mom has had schizophrenia and bipolar disorder since before her daughter’s birth. At times she is loving and wants to be involved with her daughter and grandchildren. But when the mom stops taking her medications, she is angry, paranoid, and defiant. She accuses the daughter of trying to take her money. She took her daughter off the list of contacts at her mental health clinic. She calls at all hours of the day and night making demands.
Many families have been down this road with a loved one who is being ravaged by the disease of schizophrenia. And this daughter’s dilemma is not uncommon.
I referred the daughter to NAMI Tarrant County. They are the local chapter of the national organization, and they do a great job of helping families with support and education. Very often, these support groups are the first time family members have talked with someone else who is walking in their shoes. One of our mottos at Paradise Center could be applied to NAMI, too: join us and see for yourself the difference a few good friends can make. I hope this daughter makes that call and finds the support and information she so desperately needs.
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